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ZERO TOLERANCE TO NEGATIVE THINKING

TURN BAD THINGS INTO BETTER THINGS

No amount of positive thinking will take something bad and turn it into something good, but positive thinking will turn it into something better. 

SNATCHING VICTORY FROM THE JAWS OF DEFEAT

This statement is the story of every successful life.  Everyone who achieves their dreams becomes an expert at snatching victory from the jaws of defeat.  This essential skill insures you get the best out of life, no matter what happens.  It’s impossible to always get exactly what you want.  Nevertheless, you can always take a bad situation and make it into something better.

I learned this lesson when I had a fracture of my left femur, and the fracture was slow to heal.  The fracture required a metal plate, pin, and five screws to keep it stable.  Unfortunately, the non-healing fracture interrupted my sailing voyage around the world.  I had already sailed from the east coast of the United States through the Panama Canal and across the Pacific Ocean to arrive in New Zealand.  Now the slowly healing fractures prevented me from continuing the trip.

Although, this was not a disaster of monumental proportions affecting people around the world, it was a personal disaster that affected my world.  You can’t safely sail thousands of miles offshore when you have a broken leg.  Sailing with an unhealed fracture is poor judgment and an unnecessary risk that could potentially put other people in danger.  I needed an alternate plan to take the bad thing that happened and turn it into something better.

I contacted the hospital in Saudi Arabia where I previously worked and asked if they could use my services for the next eight months while my fractures were healing.  They were happy for me to return to work, and I was happy to take a bad situation and make it into something better. 

Although I would have preferred to sail to Australia, that was neither prudent nor possible.  Eight months working in Arabia accomplished the healing of the femoral fracture and replenished my cruising funds as well.  When I returned to New Zealand eight months later, my body was ready for action and my cruising funds were in excellent shape. 

Snatching victory from the jaws of defeat wasn’t the only option.  I could have remained on my sailboat through the New Zealand winter while my fractures healed.  I would have been cold and uncomfortable, and I would have depleted my cruising funds as well.  It was a bad option that needed to be made into something better;  going to Arabia was definitely something better.

LIFE IS FULL OF OPPORTUNITIES TO MAKE BAD THINGS INTO BETTER THINGS

As we sailed across the Pacific Ocean, we had many opportunities to take something bad and make it into something better.  Educating my children during this voyage was a major challenge.  My children didn’t attend public high school.  They did high school by correspondence course from the University of Nebraska so they could sail on our yacht across the Pacific Ocean.

Neither of the children looked forward to studying two semesters of chemistry on the yacht.  For them, chemistry looked like a potentially bad experience.  They delayed studying chemistry until we arrived in New Zealand.  Soon after our arrival, we were in a car accident that put me in the hospital for two months. 

After I got out of the hospital, I underwent two months of physical therapy learning to walk again.  I couldn’t bend my right knee more than thirty degrees, and I couldn’t walk up and down stairs.  This could easily be classified as something bad.  I decided this would be a good time to teach chemistry to my kids. 

After I returned from two hours of physical therapy each morning, I got out the chemistry book and I taught them chemistry for four hours.  I spent an additional hour or two each day preparing for the next day of correspondence chemistry classes.  In four months, we finished two semesters of high school chemistry.  They completed their studies in chemistry while I learned how to walk.  We took something bad and turned it into something better.

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DIVERSITY REFLECTS THE MIND OF GOD

Have you ever had an original thought?  I'm not talking about thinking a thought that's new to you: that happens every day in school.  I'm talking about a thought than no one else has thought before.

I'm not sure I've ever done it.  I've occasionally looked at things from a different angle and put things in a slightly different perspective, but what I'm doing is simply modifying something that already exists.

God is a lot different from us.  He thinks original thoughts all the time.  When he created the universe out of nothing and populated it with life, He thought billions of original thoughts.  Every creature that ever existed on planet earth is one of God's original thoughts.  Each creature is unique and fits in a special place in God's master plan.

Scientists are always talking about the balance of nature, but what they are really talking about is the mind of God.  God created millions of species, and he put each of those creatures in a special niche that was custom made for just them.  Each species lives and survives in the garden of God's thoughts.

The Bible says that not even a sparrow falls to the ground without God's knowledge.  That means God cares a great deal about his creatures, which isn't that surprising since all living things are a reflection of His mind.

The number one miracle of the universe is life, and the number two miracle is the diversity of life. Diversity reflects the mind of God.  God didn't make only one type of people.  He made dozens of different flavors and each one is special and unique. 

When God thought the universe into existence, He could have created one planet, one sun, and one moon.  He could have made people one color and populated the animal kingdom with only dogs and cats.  But that's not the way God works; diversity is a part of his master plan.

When God finished creating planet earth and populating it with life, the Bible says He surveyed the results, and He said that it was good.  God loves diversity, and we should too.  Every time we celebrate diversity, we are celebrating the mind of God.


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RED SEA CHRONICLES DVD

When Dr. Dave isn't working as a flying doctor for the Indian Health Service, He is sailing around the world on his sailboat.  Find out what it's like to sail on the ocean of your dreams by watching Captain Dave's DVD.

Red Sea Chronicles DVD Previews

Good-bye Depression   Hello Positive Mind

Taking Back Control of Your Mind

The Land of Depression

The Laws of the Land of Depression

The First Law of Backward Thinking

Getting Your Black Belt in Negative Thinking

Backward Thinking Is a Trip to Fantasy Land

An Illusion Created by a Depressed Mind

Emotions Shout Down Your Rational Mind

The Second Law of Backward Thinking

The Feelings of Life Do Not Reflect the Facts of Life

The Third Law of Backward Thinking

Don't Strap Yourself into the Electric Chair of Depression

Escaping From the Land of Depression

Eight Steps to Eradicate Depression

Overcoming Depression and Advancing to the Next Level

Mirror Mirror on the Wall, Am I Ok After All?

Your Mental Mirrors - Inherited Mirrors of the Mind

Surviving your Personal House of Mirrors

Putting a Name on the Mirrors of Your Mind

Mirror One: All or Nothing Thinking

Mirror Two: Overgeneralization

Mirror Three: Mental Filter

Mirror Four: Disqualifying the Positive

Mirror Five: Jumping to Conclusions

Mirror Six: Magnification and Minimization

Mirror Seven: Emotional Reasoning

Mirror Eight: Should Statements

Mirror Nine: Labeling and Mislabeling

Mirror Ten: Personalization

God's Mirror - The Answer to All Cognitive Distortions

Mental Slippage - Loss of Command and Control

Mental Slippage - What's Happening

Mental Slippage - Control of Your Thoughts

Should You Use Medication to Treat Depression?

Mental Slippage - Content of Your Thoughts

How to Create a Positive Brain

Positive and Negative Brains

Positive Thinking Creates a Positive Brain

The Rest of the Story - Becoming Positive

Change Your Thoughts and Change Your Chemistry

A Word of Caution for People with Clinical Depression

Back to the Basics of Healthy Thinking

Positive Operating System

The Mathematics of Personal Change

Problems With a Negative Operating System

Characteristics of a Positive Operating System (POS)

A POS Has a Positive Focus

A POS Turns Bad Things into Better Things

A POS Looks for the Good in Everyone

A POS Looks for the Good in Everything that Happens

A POS Has Positive Expectations

A POS Is Positively Congruent

A POS Manifests a Positive Spirituality Based on Love

A POS Has a Positive Self-Image

A POS Has Positive Self-Esteem

A POS Gives You Real Power

A POS Takes You to a Positive Destination

Characteristics of a Negative Operating System

Decision Time - A Positive or Negative Operating System?

How to Install a Positive Operating System

Real Power

Be Transformed by the Renewing of Your Mind

You Are a Creature of Emotion

Renewing Your Rational Mind Is Not Enough

Renewing Your Emotional Mind Requires Healing

God's Love Changes Who You Are

How Your Mind Was Designed

Dabbling in God's Love Isn't Enough

God's Master Plan of Love

God's Pipeline of Love

God's Love - The Definitive Cure for Depression

Eradicating Depression - Realize You Have a Problem

Negative Thinking and Fatigue

Negative Thinking and the Overloaded State

Habitually Negative State

Mild to Moderate Mood Disorders

Clinical Depression

Dealing With a Negative State of Mind

Reestablishing Command and Control

Battle Against Depression Fought on the Battlefield of Focus

The Power of Positive Focus

How to Create and Maintain a Persistently Positive Focus

The First Law of Focus - What You Think About Expands

How to Create a Persistently Positive Focus

The Second Law of Focus

The Third Law of Focus

The Fourth Law of Focus

The Fifth Law of Focus

Recognize Your Cognitive Distortions

Accidents Happen But Cognitive Distortions Are Optional

Reject Your Cognitive Distortions

You Beat Depression Thought by Thought

Renew Your Mind

The Big Eight - Think on These Things

Mental Toxic Waste

The Voice of Depression Is Full of Toxic Waste

The Dastardly Deed - How Toxic Waste Ruins Your Life

Toxic Waste Detector - The Big Eight

Reprogram Your Mind With a Positive Operating System

What You Talk About Expands

What You Write About Expands

What You Read About Expands

What You Look at Expands

What You Listen to Expands

Five Simple Steps to a Positive Life

Shift Your Focus to the Most Positive Force in the Universe

Never Attack and Argue with Negative Thoughts

It's Better to Switch Than to Fight

Negative Thoughts Cannot Survive in a Heart Full of Love

The Mega-Affirmation

Repeat These Steps to Win the Battle Against Depression

Everything You Wanted to Know About Negative Thinking

Negativity Destroys Opportunity

Negativity Blinds You to Possibility

Negativity Is the Black Hole of the Mind

Negativity Is the Most Powerful Thought Magnet

Negativity Can Overtake You Anywhere and Anytime

Negativity Creates Powerful Destructive Neuroassociations

Negativity Creates Inertia in Your Personal Life

Negativity Creates a Mentality of Limitations

Negativity Has the Wrong Focus

Negativity Creates a Distorted Interpretations of Reality

Negativity Is Easier Than Being Positive

Only Embrace Risk in a Positive State of Mind

The Way Out Is Different Than the Way In

Conflict Brings Negative Thoughts into Your Life

Your Need to Be Right is the Formula for Perpetual Conflict

Conflict Is a False Model for Solving Problems

Dealing With Conflict - Loving and Letting Go

Escaping From Perfection - The Great Pretender

Perfection Pretends to Be Your Friend

Perfections Sells a Perfect Life But Delivers a Miserable One

Perfection Steals Dreams

Don't Let Perfection Take Over Your Personality

Perfect Is the Enemy of Good

Escape the Web of Spiritual Perfection

Perfection Has the Wrong Focus

Life Is Still Terrific Even When It's Not Perfect

Guilt - Hazardous Substance - Handle With Care

Test Guilt With a Watch and Calculator

Jesus Did Not Pile on Guilt

How to Eradicate Guilt

Zero Tolerance to Negative Thinking

Every Negative Thought Contains an Important Lesson

You Cannot Think Just One Negative Thought

Learn the Lesson that Each Negative Thought Has to Teach

Take Positive Action Based on What You Learned

Displace Negativity with Positive Thoughts

Push Your Mind in a Positive Direction With Power Graphics

Sastrugi Happens

Keeping Adversity in Perspective

Never Panic

Make a Limited and Orderly Retreat

Sacrifice Only the Unimportant and Expendable

Assess the Situation

Marshall Your Resources

Plan Your Counterattack

Take Enthusiastic, Positive, and Fearless Action

Never Quit

Negative Thought Alert You That Something Is Wrong

Negative Thoughts Are a Stop Sign

Negative Thoughts Point in the Direction of the Problem

Negative Thoughts Provide Valuable Feedback

Motivational Value of Negative Thoughts

Positive Action Is the Appropriate Response to Negation

The Natural History of Negative Thoughts

Stop Negativity at the Door of Your Mind

Beating the Odds

When You Think Positive, Your Life Starts to Improve

Positive Thinking Makes a Difference

Do Not Ruin Your Life With Negative Thinking

Turn Bad Things into Better Things

Snatching Victory from the Jaws of Defeat

Life Is Full of Opportunities to Make Bad Things Better

The Challenge

Affirmations for the Inner Skeptic

Affirmations Overwhelm Your Emotional Mind

Affirmations Are About Where You Are Going

The Wheel of Change

Instant Positive Thinking - Positive Neuroassociations

Positive Affirmations for Positive Power

What to Say When You Talk to Your Mind

The Supreme Law of Change

The Law of Positive Self-Talk

Two Inner Voices

The First Inner Voice - Your Mind Talking to You

The Second Inner Voice - You Talking to Your Mind

Powerful Self-Talk Comes 90% from the Heart

It Takes Time to Get Used to Your New Self-Talk

Maximum Strength Positive Thinking

Strong Arm Your Mind


 

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